It seems that many of you are dealing with wives undersexed. No doubt: we, the women are fickle and also easily hired creatures like us would sometimes be. There is never a single answer, but perhaps some of these will help.
Q: when we were unique, my wife always came upon me. Now I launch almost at every time and get declined much. She speaks of her sexual self as in its past. What who speaks? No wonder cheating man.
A: her sexual self is in the past? Which is difficult to stomach. Sex drives are capricious things of fuel, and people complain about their post-marriage dipping too often. And I do not see how this happens. That damned thing called life consuming space head there is no place to turn-Add-ons when you think of bills, chores, work, children and all this that other wastes of real life gets a CC fit. Women, especially, cannot leave small things long enough to get it. Sorry, it's a chronic dysfunction du-genetics.
But I'm surprised it isn't even interested in trying. My only thoughts here are (A) maybe it is intimidated by your persistence. My husband used to feel pressure when I come so often that he had no opportunity to reciprocate. I retracted and regraded things. For us, it is mutually give the right space, (B) you need a break from real life for a little, remove distractions and just enjoy each other - with or without sex – a few days so you can exit or perhaps (C) it did not attract to you more and blaming his lack of sexual self is his way around this. Sorry for my outspoken here, but if this is the case, then there are more factors involved that it truncated sex drive.
Q: I'd like to learn a thing or two about how to spice up my wife and the sexual life of the mine after 3 years. The first two were great. Sex still is great… sometimes… when we do so. There are problems of health, new weight in the way, libido lowering the meds, etc. I'm trying to constantly…to so that it appears to be upset at times. I need help. I want that our wedding to be perfect and I know that our sex life should be perfect for the rest to be perfect.
A: I think that you are not looking for too much. And I think you have it backwards – your sexual life does not "rest" perfect, it is the opposite. Obviously, you and your wife have some significant challenges now, and I am sure that it is not happy about your change of sexual life you.
But it deals with health issues and that you are impatient and have needs…which is understandable. But being persistent and annoying won't help you get it in the bag. Providing things might not immediately be on the table, but the search for ways to care for your needs without insulting your wife could be a way to go.
If you like porn in all, perhaps it will look with you so that you can have a shared experience together. Or make him feel nice when it probably isn't: insist on the fact that she close our eyes and keep them closed, then nothing but lovingly touch everywhere. Could be a pleasant time for you both.
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