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"These few women who want that rich, boring guy - they usually unbearably boring themselves."

Yes, it's that time again: the day we feature your dating and relationship questions. Although we would like to answer each one personally and with as much detail as possible, the large number of inquiries forces us to highlight those that are most interesting to readers of AskMen.

Q & A this week explains how keeping interested: David DeAngelo, author of dating your Double: what every man should know how to be successful with women, has your answers.

Dave,

Faster, which ruined love with a woman? East - this appearance facial, silver, that you add or what? Just I have difficulty understanding the ladies, they seem to just to follow the money, and not love, as such. How can I not lose that love me for who I am and what I am?

OneStone

Pierre, my friend, you are a little difficult to follow on this subject, but I believe that whether you go. Let's see if I can field, because I think that what you are by car is extremely important.

I always say that the way to no. 1 blast with a woman has nothing to do with how you look, what car you drive or how much money make you, but everything to do with acting as a "Wussy." I mean by that, too often call. Saying your "feelings". Request instead of driving. Basically being a doormat.

But it seems to me that you ask about the specific character of Wussy kills feelings of attraction with a woman once they have already begun. If so, let me break down for you, because there is a primary way to lose the attention of the woman in the long term, and yet again, this has nothing to do with the appearance or money.

Here's what he has to do with: being predictable.

Which leads directly to be boring.

Rapid biology lesson OneStone; you me as the kind of guy who will truly be fascinated by it.

In turn there is an area of the human brain which constantly anticipate what is about to happen and then ignores everything that is easily predictable. In other words, you are more predictable, faster brain of someone else (especially the female brain) will look at you boring and settle you.

Then, how you shake the "annoying brain Curse" and avoid killing the first étincelles attraction with a woman once they develop?

It's amazingly simple once you learn a few simple techniques: Learn how to make comments on a wide variety of things at random.Try hard to disagree with it.Read a book on how to structure and tell fascinating stories.Get another book on comedy to learn how to be funny and jokes.When she thinks that you take him here, suddenly take it.Basically, everything everything it takes to avoid being predictable, and you will never meet as boring.

Because the fact is that women would much rather be with an unpredictable, interesting and funny guy with a super-rich guy, beau, who is totally boring. And indeed, few of these women is that rich guy, boring - they are usually unbearably boring themselves.

Hey, David,

Recently, I noticed that I am being often too presumptuous when it comes to my answers to women. He is arrogant, but not funny. I know I don't have the skill yet. What do you think would help me really? Love your work.

Kevin Australia

Kevin, I could give you the answer shamelessly and tell you to get ahold of my programme of cocky comedy ASAP, because it will literally change your life when it comes to dialing up to the ball-busting for precisely the right level with women.

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It is a universal fact on the playing field: boys tease girls. It gets their attention like nothing else. It worked when we were 10 and women still love it when they are 20. And 30.

Now, the best way to make sure that immediately – tease you without being too mean or arrogant - is to find something very minor in women can be just a little insecure about and tease talk in a way that makes her wonder if you're serious. This shows that you are the kind of guy who is so comfortable in her own skin that you Don't care what she thinks about yourself.

In other words, cross as cool, quiet and totally confident, and you'll begin to create this magic sense in a woman who is really for all ball game when it comes to want to be with you - attraction.

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