"When a woman removes the sex, it is because you are connected is more emotionally on her...". "There is a song that goes," where his libido gone? ". "Now, I want you to sing. Guys do you remember the song "where have all the flowers Gone?".
Where is his libido spent? She was extraordinary for the first six months of the relationship. She could not get enough of you. She has attacked you. It would be crazy everywhere — all over you. It would blow you. It would screw you in strange places. She would want sex with you in the afternoon. Then, suddenly he become a relationship. And all these things happening. And it seemed his libido is depleted.
We will start the cycle of the complainant. And the problem is, the cycle of the complainant never works. If you ask your friends, you will find most of them are in exactly the same situation (meaning, no sexual life). They are either relations which do not have enough sex, or they are not in a relationship and they get any sex. Thus, those who do not get any sex tell you not to worry about it - at least you get it from time to time.
But I do not think that libido never need to go further.
The thing surprising intimacy and having the same sexual partner is that you can get comfortable with one another and learn all about each other. Learn how to get off with each other, learn to please the other, to learn that like that of the other. Know that the other one does not like. And it is exciting.
It is not that she is not attracted by you. It is not that his sexual impulses disappeared. It is that you are not connected with it emotionally anymore. When sex is removed to him, a man will complain. Some men are pouty. Some men just ignore their partner. And most of them will throw complaints there. This is the kind of passive-aggressive behaviour that I have just described.
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