Doc Love: Just Friends.

Paramount PicturesAlways enter a date with a solid game plan.If a date in the wrong direction, change your tactics.Nothing kills sexual chemistry as negativity.

Most guys Don ' t think ahead in relations... It's like entering the war without a plan of attack. "

This week, Doc Love helps a young reader to deal with the release of"just friends"."
Hey Doc,

I've been a reader for some time. Love the work!

I'm looking for advice on pounce on a girl I failed to win in the last time. I'm 25 and have had great success with women, but there are very few that I found to be material in the long term.

Two months ago, I met Marcella on the bus. It is interesting and interested. After getting her number, I went out with her, and the date went great for some time. We went to a restaurant and a smile from left. She seemed to follow me around, and I knew she was interested in me. Unfortunately, because I was new in the region, I did not really think about coming to go and what to do. I started to leave the decisions in his hands, and we finally get a film and go to her apartment to look at. His interest is slightly reduced, but she was still in me. Then, on the following date, I made the error of along with her to dance with her and her friend. I am tired to me, and since I love not crowded spaces, I came across as not supported enough. I asked Marcella if she wishes to meet again and received the slammer "and friends".

I SearchText Marcella a few times since then and obtained answers but never succeeded to make plans, so I just abandoned for some time. He has been a month since I spoke of it, but I continue its light on the bus. I flirt with other girls and simply ignore his. Now I think to take another blow of knife at Marcella. Do you think I should just give it more time? And if I approach it, brings to the date of the last a taboo subject?

Alain - who still feels the challenge

Hello Alain,

You really like my job. What you mean, is that you like my work. If you really loved the work, you would own "system" - and you do not have.

When you say that you've found a few girls who are contents in the long term, you say also indirectly as these girls have never been you hardware in the long term. Have you thought about it?

You did not have a solid plan of Marcella dating match. In fact, you were not any plan at all. Most of the guys do not believe future in relations. They only look at their feelings at the time, and they never look on the road. They have no kind of foresight and wisdom on where this relationship may be headed. It's like entering the war without a plan of attack. As my cousin General Love says: "when you March on the battlefield not prepared, you invite disaster.".

And, indeed, you relinquished his control almost immediately and ended at the apartment of Marcella with nothing in mind except for a film. Like my cousin Sal "the fish" Love says: "in other words, it was not long before she started to wear pants and you started the dress." Well, it's great, Alain. That guaranteed to raise the level of interest of Marcella.

Discover how to win when it begins to lose interest...

Premature ejaculation and 90-second window

The most important thing ThinkstockThe in bringing a woman is relaxation.Focus on stimulation rather than penetration. Solution? Foreplay.Besides foreplay, focus on the positions of women's pleasure.

"Your MOM could walk in the room (we hope it doesn?t), and you wouldn?t be able to stop."

May not last as long as you want during sex? It is not even important. The truth is that you could last longer than the Director of creation Cup, and it would not be a bit of difference if you were not to give a woman the right type of stimulation. However, learn a few key tips, and you can give a woman an orgasm breathtaking with only a few minutes of sexual intercourse. The secret? It's timing. Keep reading to learn more about the management of premature ejaculation by taking advantage of the window of 90 seconds.
When it comes to, well, from, men and women are very different. As I explained in my new book, The Good in bed Guide to overcome ejaculation, the guys have a so-called orgasmic is inevitable. This is the time where you will pass the point of no return and the climax, any. Your MOM could walk in the room (we hope that it is not), and you have not been able to stop. But women have not orgasmic is inevitable. In fact, many women say that they can "lose" an orgasm when they are right to do so.

This is where the "female window of opportunity orgasmic". This is the minute and a half, (aka the window of 90 seconds) when it is close to peak - right shots can help grow on the edge and ensure his orgasm. Here's how.

Studies show that women are more likely to orgasm when comfortable and relaxed during sex. The Netherlands researchers have found that the key to female sexual arousal appears to be a deep sense of relaxation. In a study in which the brains of men and women have been digitized in the process of sexual response using a technique called tomography pet (pet), the results showed that the parties responsible for the treatment of fear female brain, anxiety and the strong emotion disable during sexual activity. And peak during orgasm, the female brain emotion centres close down, producing a State of trance-like almost. So, do everything that you can make him feel at ease and less stressed.
Then, start stimulate its largest sex organ: brain. Research shows that most women fantasize during intercourse, probably because it helps to relax. Share a hot fantasy - with it, of course. After a few mental foreplay, you must transition in some serious physical foreplay. When it comes to ejaculation, never forget foreplay. Many of us see foreplay in a quick appetizer round, when we should be thinking of it as a main dish. Think clitorally rather than vaginal. focus on stimulation versus penetration. Many women say that they climax more systematically receiving oral sex, for example. Start therefore treat foreplay as its own form of copulation and give it equal - if not more - weight as of sexual intercourse.

Look at other women when your daughter of autour

X-ray one Delta / FlickrDon can't feel guilty on the verification of other women. It is in our genes.Cover your tracks by criticizing the appearance of the other woman from your girlfriend.Sometimes it is better to be honest: own up to the verification of other women.

"It is in our genetic constitution." Get over it, ladies. "As long as you have, we'll look at."

Two women recently made headlines by seizing watching their gun butts by walking in Los Angeles. They used a hidden camera in the back of their jeans. Most people caught reading were male. Surprise, surprise. They need a title for this complex experience and Earth discovery, I would like to make a suggestion. It is a Malcolm Gladwell-type idea.
Of course men watch women's butts. We check the women of the front and rear. It's our caveman ancestors. It comes to mate selection.

"Have you seen the Ugama rack."
"No." Because I am too busy gazes his butt when flounder fishing Lake with its teeth.

It is in our genetic constitution. Get over it, ladies. As long as you have, we will look at.

The only problem is that men keep getting caught Check out the found women, not the found of our WAGs. It is for this reason that we need to do a little more careful and a little more ingenious when they catch us in the Act. Here are a few ways to look at other women when your daughter of autour.

Your daughter do mind your assets research another woman, as long as it is for cut into shreds. Is not to mock one of your favorite hobby as a couple of other people? "Have you seen the size of the butt of this chicken?" Time to lighten on grease filled coffee and bagels in the morning, eh? "Even if the woman is sexiest and best rear your daughter (which may be the case, since you were to research), you have to pretend it's the biggest butt, you've never seen. If it is obviously not big at all, find some other fault with it. Just do a good enough reason to be research in the first place. "I thought that she was hiding meat hamburger packs in his pockets." "I have really".