Q: Ok, here's a question that the effects of my life. Issues happen all the time, what is worse emotional cheating as internet or physical? Long story short: I dropped my marriage, my wife left, crossing of divorce, and found happiness with an ex then separated. Before my divorce was final I deployed and my wife and I decided to try again. She put me in hell during deployment, but from what I knew never triché. But then 2 years after I return to my sister told me she made 10 times and she admitted it. Now to deal with it I shut down and talked to females online, but never anything serious. Due to, she said that we are. He has been a year now and I still feel terrible but I still love my wife. If I want to know, 1 is mine as bad as hers? And 2 how actually get you this?
A: Ooof - you are in a difficult spot and the only way to get over it (in my opinion, any way..) is for you and your wife mutually wipe the slate clean. Start from zero. There is no question of who is worse - you both away. Keeping score here you'll get nowhere. If you want to pass all cheating (hers and yours), you have either forgive or forget (ideally both). Constantly thinking his cheating would only make you two are tops.
But only, it will be more difficult for both of to do you this if you are not in your marriage. Few things to ask: 1: even after all, you're still in love with your wife? 2: Place you have given your prior marriage, you are looking for a reason to do it again?
In my opinion for non-professional-, you will need to provide flexibility for what happened while you were away to another. This is not an easy time for anyone. I would definitely suggest the two you see an adviser should be able to help you move from cheating ways, but that only works if you both are not fully prepared to leave the past and start over again in the present.
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