I thought that this question was worth its own post. That you think this…Cheating is to help your marriage?
Q. my friend just told me that he has a relationship. I am torn between shocked and jealous. He and his wife appear to be still solid, but now it says it is sex the best of his life, and things couldn't be better at home. I love my wife, but part of me wants that there - I have never given him happier. Can cheating actually improve your marriage?
A. Umm…doubtful. But I am sure that you (or your friend) can be happier in the moment. I see now: he gets to have the best of both worlds, home to his wife with an extra spring in his step after rolling around complete with her lover for half of the day. Her the happiest woman ' cuz, it is most happy (and presumably hornier) and maybe in the short term its world couldn't be better.
But flash forward a few months. Her lover (or him) began to want more of the case, his wife innocently finds evidence of sexting, sound makes torn-between-two-worlds he cranky at home, he just accidentally home with someone from another sock on its feet… .you get the picture.
I have no doubt your friend still loves his wife and is still invigorated by the vigorous surge (and ego-boost) a case. But, as with the question…well "may cheat really improve your marriage?", guess that depends on how you see. Might appear to be improving it for a minute, if you factor Disrespecting the wife off the coast of the table, but what happens when you don't know when to quit? It worth throwing a marriage apparently decent away for? Cannot say I recommend, but you might want to keep an eye on what is happening to your friend.
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